Take some fucking initiative

someone close to me has this little habit of bitching all the time. about... everything. she lives a pretty good life. she has everything she's ever wanted. and relatively speaking, she doesn't have to work too hard or concern herself with too much to live the sorta perfect life she lives.

yet she's always complaining. and praying (out loud, on facebook mostly) for things to go her way. like, "please god let so-and-so not show up to the party so i don't have to deal with her" and then thanking god when it goes her way.

when it doesn't go her way, she just keeps complaining and praying for things to... yep, you guessed it, go her FUCKING WAY.

it's real sad and real weak.

if there's anything i fear, it's being a pussy. i don't want anyone to ever think of me as a wimp, a sissy, a doormat that can be walked on, someone who won't do some fucking work to accomplish some real fucking goals. and when i put effort into something, when i put in all that fucking work, i don't want to give the credit to some unseen, unproven, unbelievable sky daddy who had NOTHING TO FUCKING DO WITH IT.

so, i want to say something to this person, i want her to know she's being a real whiny, spoiled bitch. and that she might benefit from toughening up a bit so her children don't become weak. like her.

but i haven't found the nicest way to say that.

yet.